How do you deal with people who steal your wilds? I'm not in an allience but what is the general rule do I start attacking their wilds?
If they are part of an alliance then contact the chancellor. Generally most alliance frown on wild stealing and they will deal with their player. However some alliance don't care or even exist solely to steal wilds. If this is the case then there is very little you can do. You can try to defend your wilds but that leaves your troops exposed. Or you can just ignore them and eventually they get bored and go away.